if only i could write to her. speaking would be too much. just to write and know she read my words. it's been more than two
years, and you'd think i'd be over it. that i wouldn't still break down
when i'm alone... after a half bottle of wine. but, the problem is
that i am it. i am so much today defined by her absence. so much so that i wouldn't exist now if she hadn't died then. so, it's always there.
At every moment some bit of me is thinking about it... maybe the tiniest
little unconscious sliver. it's there, instead of her being here.
i'm propelled by efforts to absolve myself from what i now know i should have
done. and absolution from the resentment i hold for how she was. how
she wouldn't accept it... and wouldn't let anyone else, either. now
that remains. if only she could have been like our grandmother, hard
edged until the end. but our grandma was probably not so forged at 45. that comes with time, and with that, the luxury to accept
mortality.so these are the only words i would write to her. on the back of a postcard with one of those pictures of earth from space....
I'm sorry, Holli. I'm so fucking sorry.
I wish you were here.
she used to remind me that i cursed since i was five, so she'd know this letter was from me.
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